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Besides the basics of being well mannered and respectful to everyone, keep in mind you are not too much nor not enough. NOT ENOUGH : requesting your alone time is not bad demanding respect is not bad refusing to be touched by someone who is not close to you is not bad not sharing your weekend with your coworkers is not bad refusing to give your socials to new people is not bad dressing casual because it feels comfortable is not bad TOO MUCH : asking for an explanation and clear reasons to something/situation is not bad asking your people to remember your birthday is not bad not giving your things (because you are a holder) is not bad being always organized is not bad demanding people to respect the schedule (to not come late) is not bad Sooner or later you will meet people who have the same values as you and you might even find those who will deeply love you for these traits so don't feel bad and embrace your "flaws".
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