make a time capsule! and if you journal, then read some of your older journal entries :) try to listen to music you listened to when you were 12, even if it is silly or bad, and try to feel how you felt then. Welcome to adulthood!
Jan 14, 2025
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hey!
I spent numerous of my birthdays alone, so here's what worked for me
1. make a playlist of your favourite songs. literally every song you ever liked from when you were 10 to now.
2. go to your favourite place, but if you don't have one then just go to a park or a museum. I love people watching while listening to music.
3. book a spa day. that one I haven't tried but sounds fun. spa is better in solitude anyway.
4. eat your favourite food. honestly a game changer lol food is the most amazing thing we as species have created.
5. do something you enjoyed as a kid. painting, blowing bubbles, making sand castles. it makes you feel so good, like you're reconnecting with something that's been asleep deep inside you.
6. if you're not scared to talk to strangers then talk with someone you don't know. at a pub or in a line. could be fun.
happy early birthday!
May 17, 2024
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Every year on my birthday I listen to my favorite album (In Colour by Jamie xx) and take a walk! I started a few new traditions this year - making a playlist consisting of songs that remind me of the past year and i cap the song # at last year's age. Also, I donate to an organization or charity I admire in the amount of the age I am turning (:
Jun 24, 2024
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If you find yourself crying/sad for no gd reason, think about the older version of yourself.
I always find myself particularly sad on my birthday for some reason. If I could take my younger self out on his birthday 5 years ago, I would get a McFlurry and laugh to myself about how odd and funny it is to be sad on your birthday.
Nothing to fix it. Just McFlurry in the park and write in ur tiny sexy sketchbook.
An afternoon iced drink is also so luxury and deserving on a birthday.
Feb 19, 2024
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Meet your best friend after 2 years. Plan to go to a local korean restaurant near her college. Restaurant is in a slightly dingy area. Ask another friend to come with you. Find out that your abusive mother does not want to let you go to the restaurant, nor is she okay with a guy friend accompanying you. (You are all 19 btw - and this is your first time going somewhere unsupervised by family in 2-3 years after living in house arrest your entire life). Mother insists to drop you off to your friends' college, and parks her car outside the main gate to make sure you don't leave the premises. You and your friends try leaving through the staff gate, but the guard informs you that students cannot enter and exit through it. You have to get to the restaurant by 4pm - a package is arriving there for you. A race against time. Back at the front gate. Friend goes out alone to check where your car is. It is right next to the gate, facing the path through which you're supposed to leave. He books an auto rikshaw and asks the driver to pick you up from inside the premises - smart. Wear your friend's jacket and use the hood to hide your face. Best friend changes out of her kurta, wears her mask and ties her hair up. Perfect disguise. Get in the auto rikshaw. Guy friend sits on the side facing your mom's car. You and Best friend sit on the inside and hide yourselves. The auto rikshaw starts running and passes your car. Mom looks at the rikshaw exiting and does not recognize you. Laugh. loudly. Look at your friends. Put your hand up to your chest and feel your heart beating wildly. Try your best to not shake your legs.
Reach the dingy area swarming with other students. Procure the package. (it contains gifts from your sort-of-ex-boyfriend. It is complicated and you dont have the time to feel the storm raging inside.) Speed walk through the narrow paths and look at the neon lights. Best friend remarks that she feels like she is in a Wong Kar Wai film. Enter the restaurant. You never knew a place like this existed in Delhi, hidden away like a secret. Laugh to yourself nervously. Take in the ambience. Korean pop music blaring in the background. Students talking and laughing loudly, some of them slightly drunk perhaps. Take your phone out and hurriedly click a blurry picture so you don't forget this moment before scurrying after your friends. Find a place to sit and wait for your order. Take deep breaths. Look at your friends again. Feel warm inside. Let the feeling soak in until your phone rings again.
Jan 20, 2025
how do you know if a volcano is dead, or just patient? it's restless - like me.
Jan 20, 2025
been using yt music more than Spotify lately, started disliking how performative and catalog-y everything is on Spotify (i hate consumption identity!!!). Realized that the sound quality on yt music is much better and Spotify sounds like ass! Spotify is basically the America of music streaming platforms - pretends to be better than it really is, and everyone uses it despite knowing it kind of sucks.
anyway, I've been getting into a lot of Sade lately. (my recently estranged husband ((ex boyfriend i really love and miss)) used to really love Sade, so I listen to her to feel closer to him) I have to say, she is lovely. I have been trying to get into a lot of soul, r&b, jazz , or just anything that sounds mellifluous and flowy. I'll link my playlist here :>
Feb 17, 2025