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I’m in a better place in my life, I manage to make a solid connection with someone that I can really see myself progressing with (romantically), and life still manages to get in the way. Shout out to you, universe. I understand, but I’m… yeah… Idk.
We still have a solid connection of course and I will always cherish it, but this sucks lol. Maybe we’ll revisit this again in the future. It feels silly but I just really thought that this was it.
Jan 17, 2025
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“maybe we should take a step back…”
that’s better than “I want to end this”, but it’s still a bummer 😂
i think its times like this where i miss the traditional way of getting into a relationship. but i also feel like from my inexperience, and my biological clock, that i need to get going and married fast. i don’t want have kids at 37 like my mom and be close to not active with them.
still enjoying my time, but like, im almost 28 with only one legit relationship on my record…
Feb 10, 2025
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Decided to tell it here when people here are just strangers and why not? I feel not sad but also not happy about it. 1) I have to make up a whole new routine? 2) I have to be on the apps again? 3) Love was/is still there for him, but that’s not enough to build a longlasting connection. However, it’s been a fun couple of years, I would never forget it. Hopefully. Wishing for a better year this year 🫶🏽⭐️🩷🥹🎉
Jan 23, 2024
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i am a hopeless romantic and will take all the chances I get to keep up with relationships.
Summer 2023, i met someone in San Diego and was in contact with him for a very long time. I expected him to be a legitimate partner, maybe even have a long distance relationship, move out there and live this idyllic life in California.
Then, last June he stops messaging me. I sent him messages on and off to see how he was doing. He saw them, but never responded. Then he blocked me out of nowhere in October.
I kinda had a breakdown. I felt like I was unlovable, that he was my last chance to have a relationship with someone who had most of my wants in a future partner. I was willing to compromise so much for him, then he just went away, with no explanation.
Things got better, and I started talking to someone else who feels even more compatible with me. And I am loving this. i feel more calm with this person and i am allowed to be myself even more than I have with other men I have talked to.
Then last night, i randomly woke up to a message from the guy in San Diego.
He is a city away from me currently and I was perplexed, and angry. I told him how he hurt me, and then he wanted to talk to me about it. But i haven’t responded since.
I imagined with situations like this, at least in the movies there’s sometimes a spark of hope that shows up when the old flame returns. However, that didn’t happen last night. I was annoyed. And a bit disgusted.
Romance is a lot, but I am happy with my current situation and the love and attention I feel like I am getting, and deserve.
Jan 8, 2025
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Back in the gym again, eating better, more journaling, exploring my hobbied again, doing more creative things…
I’m excited to come back to myself
Jan 18, 2025
Whenever it comes to friend hang outs, putting the whole day aside to spend time with each other is so essential.
Jan 19, 2025
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Living in Honolulu, I didn’t realize there are so many people that don’t like the roosters/chickens here?? Like maybe island/country life isn’t for you bc why would you wanna pay to have them removed, they live all over the island. You’ll find them everywhere… Idk I just don’t get it
Feb 9, 2025