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i love how community building tea time is. every once in a while all my neighbors will get together and we’ll all bring sweets and mugs and we’ll sit together and catch up. it’s fun because neighbors are a more random bunch than any sort of pre formed friend group. so the stories and perspectives you hear are outside the scope of what you're used to.
Jan 21, 2025
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- Community building
- People to dump baked goods on so you don't feel guilty when you end up with too many cookies
- Expanding your furry friend circle
- Engaging in trades of herbs for power tools
-Increasing love and happiness
Sep 26, 2024
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want to live in a sitcom? start hanging out with your neighbors! invite them to dinner! make a standing happy hour at the mediocre bar on your block! text them neighborhood gossip! ask them to water your plants in exchange for little souvenirs when you travel!
be the Kramer, be the Phoebe, just have fun with it!
Mar 24, 2024
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people talk about running into people you know like it’s a bad thing but most of the time it makes my day. that’s small city CULTURE
it can happen like this: you make a bunch of scones and decide to a couple off on the porch at the house of your friend who lives down the street. as you’re walking you hear a honk — another friend who’s driving down the street passes you and waves hello. loneliness epidemic WHERE? the world is simply full of wonderful people i love at every turn!!
Feb 16, 2024
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i swear the sand of my hometown beach is made up exclusively of crushed oysters. i find them everywhere. in my backyard and in parking lots and always inconveniently under my foot whenever i’m not wearing shoes. they’re pretty though. shiny. i find lots of different colors, but my favorite is probably this dark blue.
Jan 13, 2025
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one option is to take inspo from others. think of fictional characters or real people who you think of as fun or cool or different from you in an interesting way? what stands out to you about them? and try to model that. another option is to slightly change hobbies/habits you already have. walk a different path to work, paint in a different color, sit in a new coffee shop. perspective can offer you something “different”. one last thought is to make a new friend. talking to new people can help you see the world a different way.
Jan 13, 2025
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are THE place to sit and have an hours long bitch sesh about whatevers heavy on your heart. you may be imagining two girly pops hashing out bad dates and situationships. but i was just sitting with my roommate’s stepdad putting back fruity lil margaritas holding down opposite positions in politics society and everything in between
Jan 15, 2025