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it feels a little controversial to share this rec on a platform that rides heavy on positivity and kindness (which Iām in favor of) but letās be honest being a hater is deeply satisfying and when harnessed accordingly can even be productive.Ā
being a hater ā when channeled accordingly ā can position you to use whatever gift or talent the universe (or god, or whatever higher power you believe in) placed upon you, and make a tangible thing out of it.Ā
if Kendrick Lamar has taught us anything itās that being a hater can get you so far youāll end up winning Grammys for it. Sometimes, pettiness IS the way forward. stay consistent with it. Ten toes down.Ā
being a hater will have your enemies go into hiding while folk in Portugal or South Africa (which Iāve witnessed in real time) are blasting and yelling in unison āā¦ A MINORāĀ
if thereās one thing Iāve learned from living in America is I need to be a hater to survive. Especially after this past month.
We got a long 4 years ahead of us and weāre gonna need this idea of being a hater as part of our skillset to fuel us into taking action and shaking shit up.
At the end of the day. Being a hater I believe is just as imperative as it is to being a lover. I think the real challenge is finding balance.
ps. I just found out that āNot Like Usā has exactly 101 beats per minute which makes the right tempo for hands only CPR. So there you have it. Being a hater can also save a life.
Feb 6, 2025
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Too many people are like āmake the best of itā or ālook on the bright sideā
Come on yall. Just hate. Itās okay to say shit sucks, that itās bad. Being fake about it and acting like everything is fine is not good
Apr 11, 2024
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Itās easy to just hate and equally easy to bail but if you force yourself to exert your haterism as momentum to hold yourself to a higher standard. why not challenge yourself to do it a little better every time you pick it up. even if youāre being a little spiteful or catty.
Apr 2, 2024
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Donāt let people enjoy things but donāt be a dick about it
Jan 29, 2024
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went to my roommates boyfriendās art show last minute and did not regret. Definitely didnāt know what I was getting myself into and despite my exhaustion peaking 15 min into our time at the gallery i very much enjoyed it.
100 artists had their artwork featured in various fridge doors. Very beautiful concept.
Feb 22, 2025
I know a book is good if Iām tearing up.
And this one did just that.
Very sad. Very beautiful. Very heartbreaking. Written from the a journaling perspective of the main character whoās mentally disabled and becomes the perfect candidate for a surgery that allows him to be a functioning member to society and experience life from a new perspective.
Feb 9, 2025
been unemployed for the last 7 months due to burnout and health issues and although I was financially prepared to be unemployed for 5mo. Iāve spent the past 3mo aggressively job hunting and every interview Iāve had (about 10-15 of them) have been depleting my self esteem.
however. I have a renewed sense of hope and anticipation for the right opportunity to cross my path and todays pre-interview moment was spent affirming myself and taking a selfie to remind myself that āI am indeed that bitchā and anyone would be lucky to have me as their employee.
Feb 25, 2025