Literally have a conversation - ask yourself questions about why you can’t do something and answer them. And know that our brains are terrible at predicting how we will feel after doing something. We’re down and think about going for a walk, which has lifted our spirits before, and our brains tell us it won’t make a difference. Our brains tell us we’ll be happier with some new thing, but when we get the thing we are not happier. I am like you and have a difficult time choosing to change. My brain fights it, too! It sucks.
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