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smoking a cigarette in the garage

at a house party, some friday night in january.  “no smoking in the house,” they said, “but you can out there” my gaze drifts to the open door, smoke spilling out into the next room. it mingles with led lights. swirling blue and purple in the hazy air.  i’m perched on the edge of the couch, in the corner by the door. my belt is too tight now that i’m sitting. i feel it dig into the thin skin that stretches across my hipbones. my mouth is dry, and my head is spinning a little.  i curled my hair tonight, and wore lingerie with my carhartt jacket. i am 19 years old and sometimes i remember i am pretty. 

@novadoodle

Feb 17, 2025

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Skinny cigarettes

so classy + cunty, despite never being married it allows me to live in my divorced wife fantasy

@eliselilflower

Jan 22, 2024

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Smoking cigarettes in a non performative way

I love when you see someone and you can tell they’re about that shit. No getup or posing for some lame ass instagram picture.

@floydstott

Feb 12, 2025

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you do, in fact, owe people things

this idea of "you don't owe anyone anything" came about through the social media therapists that try to diagnose complete strangers with a multitude of issues and complexes. all it has done has made selfish people more selfish and divided us as a community. you do not owe everyone everything, but if you consider yourself part of a community, a society, you do owe everyone something. at a base level you owe people kindness, respect (as long as they haven't lost the right to it), and basic human decency. you owe your loved ones even more. stop being selfish and rude in the name of treating your so-called "people pleasing."

@sbonifazi

Feb 4, 2025

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not monetizing your hobbies

if one more person tells me to turn one of my hobbies into a business i'm gonna go berserk. is nothing sacred in this late stage capitalist hellscape?

@sbonifazi

Feb 3, 2025

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not knowing who you are

oscar wilde said, "If you want to be a grocer, or a general, or a politician, or a judge, you will invariably become it; that is your punishment. If you never know what you want to be, if you live what some might call the dynamic life but what I will call the artistic life, if each day you are unsure of who you are and what you know you will never become anything, and that is your reward." i remind myself of this quote every time i get jealous of my friends who have it all figured out.

@sbonifazi

Feb 1, 2025