i think nothing can beat the feeling when somebody says that they have been thinking of you or something reminded them of you. whether it’s a tv show I recommended, a flower I really like or just a random thing I mentioned to them years ago- i love it when a friend tells me that they were thinking of me and actually like me ( I guess I also really like the validation cause of my lack of emotions permanence) but yep kind words feel even better than any material gifts.