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Sometimes I get caught up in wanting so badly for someone to like me, that I don’t even realize that actually I don’t like them lol, or that they don’t make me feel good. I’m on my self-preservation journey, and it is time to say some rhetorical goodbyes for the sake of my peace and sanity !!
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I discovered that the most important thing when it comes to realising that someone is not a great friend for you (not because they necessarily did you wrong, even though it happens) is when you actually start not liking yourself when you are with them/around them. You don’t recognise who you are because you’re putting up a facade just to please them and not be judged by them…
I think it’s an awful thing to do to yourself.
A great thing, if having an honest conversation with the person doesn’t work, might be boundaries, and slowly distancing yourself.
Sometimes people grow apart, and that’s ok.
Sep 19, 2024
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Has anyone else ever experienced realizing what u actually need to feel loved and cared for by realizing the people in ur life aren't giving that to u? I've been dealing with that a lot recently and it's so crazy to process in the moment tbh
Apr 22, 2024
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stranger in the library asking for a hug? pretend you're listening to music and walk away!
not enjoying that dicey movie rec your friend sent you, cuz its a little too edgy? turn it off!
ur dating app match got too obsessed way too quickly, wont stop saying the l word? ghost em!
well- maybe the ghosting thing is controversial. but man i dont think we owe these fellas our time, keep your safe space safe even if that means walking away without telling them. maybe that's safer sometimes, too. i dunno. i also just dont like confrontation. oops.
Feb 17, 2025
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I’m on an instagram break plus I like you guys more so please enjoy this painting I am proud of. Referencing Bosch‘s garden of earthly delights, specifically the third “Hell” panel ❤️🔥 acrylic and gouache on raw canvas!
Feb 5, 2025
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Like I am sometimes haunted by thoughts and thinking too much can be low key scary
Jan 30, 2025
