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This is a neither a federal court nor a Nancy meyers movie, we are all deeply flawed and also beautiful shining children of god! Expecting people to meet neurotic standards of behavior or pass unannounced passive aggressive personality tests is setting yourself up for disappointment.
Nov 4, 2023
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Besides the basics of being well mannered and respectful to everyone, keep in mind you are not too much nor not enough.
NOT ENOUGH :
requesting your alone time is not bad
demanding respect is not bad
refusing to be touched by someone who is not close to you is not bad
not sharing your weekend with your coworkers is not bad
refusing to give your socials to new people is not bad
dressing casual because it feels comfortable is not bad
TOO MUCH :
asking for an explanation and clear reasons to something/situation is not bad
asking your people to remember your birthday is not bad
not giving your things (because you are a holder) is not bad
being always organized is not bad
demanding people to respect the schedule (to not come late) is not bad
Sooner or later you will meet people who have the same values as you and you might even find those who will deeply love you for these traits so don't feel bad and embrace your "flaws".
Jan 12, 2025
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do it for the bit!
worst case scenario? they don‘t like you (thats ok!). maybe you didnt gain anything but you certainly havent lost anything either... actually id still argue that you *have* gained something by allowing yourself the self compassion to be imperfect (heh heh).
best case scenario? you‘re with good company and as time goes on with said good company, you realize what you perceive to be flaws are really not flaws at all, but a part of the wonderful weave of traits and quirks that makes up you (and everyone else too!) just maybe with a little less confidence.
rest assured, the confidence can be worked on. but attracting the life you want with people who inspire you and fill your heart with the warmth of 1000 suns starts with you being your most beautiful & authentic self! warts and all!
weirdos n freaks rise up!
Jan 29, 2024
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there is certain type of extrovert that seems to believe that if you are introverted or shy you haven't reached your full potential, like you're only a half-baked pie, waiting for someone to come "pull you out of your shell" (-_-)...
i am not a flower waiting to bloom! i am not an unfinished garment! THIS IS THE DEAL! take it or leave it, don't try to shape things you don't understand into something you do.
no one owes you their bared soul.
Mar 3, 2025
Top Recs from @kaykasparhauser
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This is just one video but there are so many on this channel you can just play the whole playlist instead of listening to music. I love it so so much, my favorites are dilophosaurus at 7:53 and liopleurodon at 11:05 but they’re all amazing and made my feel really crazy inside!
Nov 4, 2023
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it just makes your day a little brighter, but you can say fuck.
Nov 4, 2023
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You can look at most corners in Manhattan and a lot of good ones in Brooklyn. You can watch the sunset from over the hudson from Chelsea , you can watch runners in Central Park, you can watch protests go over the williamsburg bridge. You can triangulate it with find my friends and Citizen and feel like Batman
Nov 4, 2023