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shame vs guilt

guilt is doing something wrong and feeling remorseful, while shame is feeling that you as a whole are wrong. there’s more to it of course, but being conscious of the difference has helped my self confidence immensely.

@weird

May 28, 2024

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Understand what is really happening

my first wondering — when you talk about feeling guilty over good things happening — is why is that? What is driving that guilt? And also, is it really guilt or something else? Like, fear that it is going to be yanked away or that it’s all a facade?

@mattshawsome

Oct 8, 2024

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No shame for things you SHOULDN'T be ashamed of

Not in the sense where you do dumb shit and disturb people and things and have absolute zero shame. But just not shaming yourself into not trying things or doing things because you fear judgement and embarrassment. We’ve integrated being ashamed into our consciousness over the darndiest littlest things. No more shame for goofing up when learning something new or waving to someone accidentally. Take it with stride. Just laugh at yourself once in a while… it makes a good story.

@undiagnosedflu

Feb 5, 2024

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being alone

builds character. no one is looking at you weirdly i promise just see the movie by yourself bae. if nothing else do it because joan didion also thinks it’s a good idea. just don’t isolate

@ellabella

Feb 11, 2024

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using things that are not bookmarks as bookmarks

a starburst wrapper, a leaf (beware of staining the pages), a journal page with a secret written on it, etc.

@ellabella

Feb 7, 2024

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being bad at things publicly

it’s how we learn new things,,, gotta start somewhere

@ellabella

Feb 14, 2024