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posting has gotten scarier for some reason and having a finsta just takes away those nerves for me. i think with the commercialization of social media its hard to find authenticity online and i think having a private account brings that back even if its a little exclusive
Feb 25, 2024

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I get so scared to post content in my own content on there for some reason. I only post on there to promote my designs or DJ gigs but like...... I wanna vomit at the thought of some random acquaintance from college seeing me post some graphic design work. why am I like this???? also this is so this post is so tumblr emo high school text post coded
Apr 24, 2024
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I decided to shift to using my main instagram account to exclusively browse and engage with other music related accounts. So I made a second private finsta and Iā€™ve just been sending anything in my feed that isnā€™t music there and unfollowing from the music account. Meanwhile on the new account, Iā€™m telling every single reel it shows me whether it interests me or not. Already, Iā€™m seeing less celebrity worship or cosmetic surgery content or clickbaity stuff etc etc that I otherwise might have just mindlessly engaged with despite not caring about and not wanting to see more of. I feel weirdly empowered for the first time ever to shape my social media experience rather than simply attempt to avoid altogether this thing that makes me feel like my brain is rotting. And another upside is that my music account seems to be getting more engagement from accounts that donā€™t already follow me on the music related content that I post. Wish Iā€™d done this a long time ago, I feel like itā€™s what a lot of artists already were doing but I stubbornly wanted to keep everything in one place for so long. I donā€™t think Iā€™ll post to the other one at all I just want to be able to look at like memes and recipes and visual art without confusing the algorithm of whatā€™s intended to be a professional account . Iā€™ll prolly still steal and then post said memes on the ā€professionalā€ account tho because thatā€™s just the kind of professionalism I exhibit in my important work as a DIY musician.
Dec 30, 2024
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Honestly, it feels kinda liberating šŸ§˜ā€ā™€ļø Most of the people I had on there were my high school friends. Ever since I moved to a different country for uni, weā€™ve naturally drifted apart. We donā€™t really keep in touch anymore, whether itā€™s video calls, texting, or anything else. I kept it for so long because I thought it would be nice to see what my high school friends were up to and maybe update them on my life too. But after some serious journaling and being honest with myself, I realised thereā€™s really no point in holding on to it anymore. I was keeping it around to give myself a sense of false hopeā€”hoping that one day weā€™d reconnect and things would go back to how they were. But deep down, I know the chances of that are pretty slim. Weā€™ve all moved on and grown in different directions, and thatā€™s okay.
Aug 8, 2024

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