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i admittedly do a lot of stuff alone. which i find comfort in. but there is something about the healing power of making new friends and hanging out with them! itâs important to recharge and reflect⌠but the healing we are looking for is in each other! we build each other up! we fill each otherâs cups which in turn fills our own cups! make a new friend!! ps if youâre in LA letâs be friends
Mar 4, 2024
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friendships take so much time and trust and context to reenforce. invite an acquaintance out for coffee. text an old friend a photo of your lunch. reaching out feelers and making contact is always a nice reminder that youâre not alone-- that youâre loved.
Mar 2, 2024
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i've spent most of the year focusing on self-love and also valuing my friendships and putting the work and time into them... i feel better about myself than i have in years â i haven't really felt that loneliness from a lack of romance because i still experience intimacy in a different way. we go for dinner, to the cinema, to exhibitions, have little holidays and sleepovers... but now that i do feel so great, i feel like i've unlocked a new version of myself that's a bit more flirty and carefree lol. my friends are great and beautiful, and it turns out their other friends are too. as long as there's no history or anything you're complicating, i vote to have a look around and get to know your friends' friends!
Nov 12, 2024
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thereâs something so satisfying about a lengthy hangout. there are so many shifts and unspoken compromises between people, roles assumed and forfeited. itâs just awesome, i love my friends.
Mar 5, 2025
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we make silly mistakes and have regrets and they hurt our pride and itâs awkward yeah sure ok but hear me out:
sometimes what we are looking for (in any context) lies in revisiting, refining, reliving, remembering. or it lies in the process of doing so. itâs something iâve been reckoning with recently.
if something we learned from the past made us feel something, what can we pull from it? can it be resurrected? or made better? or can we use that feeling elsewhere?
sorry for the conceptual philosophical rec that Iâll forget writing but i wonât be able to go to bed unless i write this itchy thought down somewhere
Mar 2, 2024
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âOnce I get my body right/my money up/my skin cleared up, itâs over for yâall!â
And if you donât do any of that, cool! That doesnât make you any less valid!
Things take time. We only have so much of it in this life and we spend too much of it thinking about ourselves. Forgive yourself.
Forgiving ourselves for being where we are in the present moment frees up mental capacity for us to more meaningfully engage in the world and live outside of our own thoughts.
And thatâs what feeds our souls. Not looking or being perfect.
Mar 9, 2024
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fruits, granola bars, chips, nuts, the possibilities are endless! its cool to always have energy on the go
Mar 3, 2024