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i notice my bottom layer mobility mostly at work (server) or at the bar (dancer). i recently wore this mid length pleated skirt both to work and The Buckingham, made possible by the baby tee i had shoved in my purse, and i felt limitless. i wear skirts to work but usually they’re kind of tight and short so i have to wear shorts but i was full panty mode and could still do a deep lunge in these and i’ve never felt more alive i coukdnt shut up about it and all my dance moves involved a lot of kicking!
Mar 4, 2024
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i like REALLY hate pants but i find this is a happy medium for keeping yourself covered but in a fun way that’s customizable esp when it’s a lil too chilly outside for Bare Leg
Apr 20, 2024
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maybe u will gain insight of some kind, to feel ur legs be free yet coyly hidden
6d ago
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…im not trying to get wet pant cuffs !!! having cool bottoms that hit the shoes perfectly, creating beautiful proportions in your fit has its downsides…
but in the meantime, you can pretend like you are the guest of honour arriving at the ball with your long train and the skirt meeting the floor… embrace the pinching of the fabric between your index and thumb… stick your pinky out if you’re feeling extra regal…
(i failed in keeping my pants dry… but i tried… and that counts for something, right?)
Feb 16, 2024
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if you haven’t read it yet… do. I linked the pdf it’s only 164 pages and it is so so complex and sweet and fucking horribly sad, so amazing how it’s all packed in there.
Mar 4, 2024
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i find as an unhealed person who doesn’t have a good sense of self respect or mindfulness sex kind of causes a lot of problems for me interpersonal and personal.
at least a break in looking at WHY you’re having sex, and what kind of sexual scripts you’re following without even realizing.. what parts of yourself are you reinforcing and/or reducing when you enter sexual situations?
i think sex can be mistaken for intimacy sometimes, is this the form of intimacy that serves you best? what conditions do you think you need to have sex that makes you feel good and genuine? do you feel you have emotional agency in your sex life?
(edit: also! sex is so fucking vulnerable! of course being vulnerable is how you form connections.. but to perform vulnerability is not the same and it happens a lot!)
i also have a lot of personal disgust towards sexual scripts put on by pornography (violence, minors, cnc ect.) the rad fem aspect of sex/porn is a whole nother beast, i’d recommend looking into bdsm ect through that lense if it’s something you are looking for more insight towards. (obviously fuck TERF and try to avoid those rabbit holes, but radical feminism affirmed a lot of theories i had on why sex/sexuality is/are such a point of shame and contention for young people)
ANYWAY, i am only 20 so take this with a grain of salt but i think that naturalism fucks with peoples potential for healthy and fulfilling sex lives, preset scripts about what it should be and what it has been. If the sex you’re having feels wrong it probably is, and you have agency to change that, just take a break and reevaluate.
Mar 6, 2024
I made one inbetween rushes for my coworkers baby shower yesterday and even though it was just on a piece of printer paper it was so fun
a couple years ago for christmas i drew all my friends a very personal card with their names in pictures and fonts i thought they would like and it was so fun to get to show them how i perceived them or the things they enjoy
Mar 11, 2024