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since we can’t re-rec our own recs…
I just realized this was a stupid rec knowing you can’t help not having a sister since that’s something only your parents can give you… but… I guess I’m just saying… having a sister is so fun.
Earlier I was talking to my sister and I couldn’t pick between two very similar looking selfies to use as a profile picture on instagram only to view this guy(who I find cute)’s ig story for the first time (we don’t follow each other; I just stumbled upon his profile while scrolling) and my sister and I went on for hoursss trying to decide and it’s so fun just being able to bring up such silly dilemmas to someone I know whose default response is support instead of judgement. If I ask my closest friends the same thing, I know they would help me pick too but there’s always this feeling that they might think that I might be overdoing it just for a silly little ig story I’m about to view (that literally would only take 1 second). But with a sister, you don’t really think of those things. At least between my sister and I.
Additional rec: Beautiful Twin Sisters Podcast ep2. They also talked about the same thing, about being sisters and not having to feel shy or afraid of being judged being around each other bc they’ve literally known each other their whole lives which is such an ideal roommate situation.
I just think it’s beautiful and very comforting to know there is someone on this earth who’s always going to support you, no matter how big or small your dilemma is, in a form of a sibling ❤️🩹
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I know it’s not a Real Recommendation like you can’t just get a sister, they don’t grow on trees. But I am grateful to have one everyday😊to have someone know me so deeply and someone I know I can always be my stupid silly self around. it is very wonderful; it feels like having a constant buddy throughout this life. I learn so much from her! I miss her!!! Hi Gigi!!
Apr 6, 2024
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having sisters is the best thing. I would b nothing without them. I love when other people have sisters and we can relate on sister things. xxxx
Feb 4, 2024
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I earnestly feel bad for someone with no sister. I ask their opinion on literally everything and they are criminally honest with me. They are my biggest critics and supporters and I love them dearly. I know I have done well when my sisters say so.
Feb 3, 2025
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Apr 12, 2024
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When you’re in a slump, you’re in a slump.
Let yourself feel things. The good and the bad. I welcome them like a visitor and I invite them at the pretend dinner table in my head and get to know them, and I try not to ask them why they’re here. Why I feel things. I just let them be. Know that this will pass, just like a person visiting for a few nights and I try not to hold on to them when they’re ready to leave (yes those feelings will pass). Sounds very cliché but they do.
From my experience, the longer I fight the sadness/depression/slump, the longer it stays. I’ve learned just to take it day by day. This wouldn’t be possible without months of therapy where it was revealed to me that I’ve been so hard on myself almost my entire life.
I also meditate every night for 15-20 minutes. I take this activity so seriously, just a few minutes to close my eyes and release the tension I’ve felt the whole day. I love staying still. I love to close my eyes and think of nothing. My drive will come back.
What also helps (for me) is taking a few minutes a day to go outside and letting the sun touch my skin. It feels so good. Listen to the birds. Listen to the traffic. Just observe your surroundings and remember that there is life outside you and you are a part of something big and eventually you get inspired by something. May it be small or big. It will come back to you.
Be gentle and kind to yourself <3
Apr 25, 2024
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Solves just about anything
Dec 25, 2024