I am also an introvert with ADHD! I find the simple hobbies that hold my interest are the ones that have an element of problem-solving because there is a definite start and end, along with plenty of yummy dopamine when you solve it! Solitaire is fun if you are really looking for something simple. Also, I carry a small book of crosswords with me at all times too, those hold my attention longer than physical books.
Audiobooks/podcasts about my current fixation + outside activity (like roller skating, walking, cycling, jogging, etc ...) = the only way I get myself outdoors these days. I use Libby instead of Audible because nothing is more punk rock than the public library.
Speaking of the library, I think they are an untapped resource for people! I am a photographer and I don't have the money to buy my own equipment at the moment, so I check out equipment from my library. You can check out instruments, games, video game consoles, I have even seen Tarot cards (which I might advise against that one, Tarot is too much of a personal process that is energetically sensitive to the individual, so getting public/second-hand cards can be tough)!
The best hobbies for me are the ones I can pick up without feeling too guilty about leaving behind just as quick, the attention is gonna go wherever she wants, I have no say. I try and wait to spend any large sum of money on a hobby I am not married to yet (like buying a bunch of yarn, a sewing machine, climbing gear, etc).
Apr 16, 2024
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computer free hobbies: going for walks, doing activities (or just chatting!) with my friends (activities often include seeing art and music, gaming, having snacks, tea, drinks, meals, dancing, exploring the city, etc), reading (books pdfs anything really), thrifting, scrapbooking, experimenting with clothing and hair, {painting, drawing, weaving}these used to be more major in my life and i plan to get back into them this year... i bought supplies for cross stitching a while ago that i need to put to use asap also
computer hobbies: shopping/collecting using websites like ebay, researching my topics of interest, posting on pi.fyi (feels like scrapbooking digitally), planning (i love making little itineraries using spreadsheets im about to do this rn), finding new music and art, watching video essays, listening to podcasts
Feb 19, 2024
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I have a tendency to get really into a hobby and spend a lot of money then lose interest and abandon the hobby. A lot of times I will pick the hobby up years later. Anyways, I like sketchbook painting, cooking, fishing/kayak fishing, birding, gardening.
I think i just have a curious mind and like to learn a lot about a lot of different things.
Jul 9, 2024
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As I get older I get more self aware. I try to understand what I really like and what to make time for. If there’s something you loved and then strayed away from because you made new friends or moved to a new place, find time to pick whatever that is back up. Go dust off the old guitar and look up youtube tutorials and get back into it. Btw this actually leads me into my next rec…
Apr 24, 2023
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My friend and I watch SATC and High Fidelity (2020) whenever we want to feel better about our romantic (and just general life choices).
If you like the world of Gilmore Girls, Freaks and Geeks is so comfortable to sit in. The characters feel like how real high schoolers (I dated a guy in high school a lot like Nick from this show and we all have, I think). The costuming and soundtrack is great, the midwestern vibes are comforting, and the acting is surprisingly raw and realistic for being a comedy series. Martin Starr has genius comedic timing.
Dollface is kind of a hidden gem! Kat Dennings is a gemini queen and she creates a really lush and intricate imaginary world in this show.
Community is perfect for pop culture nerds- the first season is like a lot of sitcom shows in that it takes a bit for them to hit their stride and find their audience. It does not use the mockumentary style like Parks & Rec and The Office, which gives the show more permission to be weird and far-away from reality.
Apr 16, 2024
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I know this is kind of a no-duh choice, but she is just so fucking cool. also love rose mcgowan, pretty much any costume from practical magic, and debbie harry. obviously.
Apr 16, 2024
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I curate the vibes from beginning to end. I am told that is a weird request to make of people when I make them a playlist. I think I am just taking someone on a journey- plus transitioning from one song to another flawlessly always itches my brain in a satisfying way.
Apr 16, 2024