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PI.FYI | 🌞 Ins and outs i feel in my heart but may add more that Come to mind Ins:  in-studio yoga and freshly baked bread every day, getting to know my neighbors, wearing sunglasses everywhere I go indoors and outdoors, midi dresses and bare legs, linen shorts, bold dimensional red hair, laying down in the grass, grilling, boho free spirit vibes, big scarves worn around my arms and exposing my shoulders like a shawl, refinishing furniture, cross-ventilation, hosting visiting friends, long baths (should be a perennial in but I’ve been deprived so it starts soon), living laughing and loving Outs:  at-home yoga, dresses with tights, avoiding my yuppie neighbors like I’m in Mission Impossible, actually yuppies just in general, strawberry blonde hair with subtle redder accents, emotional rigidity, winter hygge But I would like to add IN: SEASONAL LOCAL PRODUCE DUH eating as many peaches as I possibly can

@taterhole

May 3, 2024

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summer 2024 ins & outs

Ins: spending my mornings outside, cute heels, short skirts, loads of sunscreen, fruits, fun martinis, sun bathing, tennis, more reading, more writing, baby tees, healthy hair care, fragrance free body care (scared of bugs lol), yoga outside, linen bedding, more posters, fun prints on dresses Outs: couch potato, mind rot scrolling, blank walls, not wearing any colour, not letting my skincare sink in before i go to bed,

@katelynally

Apr 20, 2024

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Ins and outs

IN -creativity -chai-der -routines -movement breaks -cultivating wonder -community organizing -live theater -budgeting -making strange acquaintances -picking up interesting rocks -introspection -having a laugh with friends -baths -the elderly OUT -looksmaxxing -directing self-hatred outward -people-pleasing -remembering past G.P.A.s -curated vintage t-shirts -booktok -using therapy speak to gossip -identical bridesmaid dresses -listening to playlists for nostalgia purposes -intermittent fasting -playing things by ear take note: more things are in than out!

@butchguy

Jan 15, 2025

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Never changing

My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌

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Finally Quitting the job that you hate

Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅

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Feb 27, 2025

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Rejecting the Commodification of the Self

I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments. We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume. On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics. By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance. For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look. In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.

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