1. Don’t talk to me until I’ve had my coffee
2. Be discerning about wants vs. needs
3. At the very least don’t make things difficult for people but ideally be helpful
4. Show grace and understanding to others
5. Hay comida en la casa
May 19, 2024
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-do your conflict resolution on the phone or in person, no angry text messages!!!
-don’t let consumerism be your entry point into a new hobby. you don’t need the latest and greatest gear/equipment to have fun
-be funny about your complaints and thank your friends for listening
-dating is completely optional and if you are not enjoying it, you don’t have to do it
-make it easy for people you love to spend time with you without spending money
-doing acts of kindness for others is an anti-depressant for all parties
-eating someone else’s leftovers without permission is sick and twisted behavior
-never cut a good conversation short just because “it’s getting late”
-wedding gifts are optional
May 25, 2024
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Don't cut lines if you can help it. Let people off the train before getting on. Don't take loud phone calls at a cafe when people are trying to work. I treat these things less like guidelines and more like laws and tbh I am right.
Dec 8, 2023
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
Feb 23, 2025
Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅
Feb 27, 2025
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I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024