Ins: embracing the ever changing nature of my newly postpartum body, thrifting clothes that are comfortable, fresh fruits and veggies from the garden, homemade iced teas, being outside as often as possible, self tanning lotion, letting sunscreen be my perfume
Outs: taking on other people’s issues, taking things personally, FOMO, pushing my body too hard, not providing proper structure so things can flow easily, drinking caffeine in the afternoon, not allowing the soft animal of my body loves what it loves
Jun 8, 2024
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Ins: in-studio yoga and freshly baked bread every day, getting to know my neighbors, wearing sunglasses everywhere I go indoors and outdoors, midi dresses and bare legs, linen shorts, bold dimensional red hair, laying down in the grass, grilling, boho free spirit vibes, big scarves worn around my arms and exposing my shoulders like a shawl, refinishing furniture, cross-ventilation, hosting visiting friends, long baths (should be a perennial in but I’ve been deprived so it starts soon), living laughing and loving
Outs: at-home yoga, dresses with tights, avoiding my yuppie neighbors like I’m in Mission Impossible, actually yuppies just in general, strawberry blonde hair with subtle redder accents, emotional rigidity, winter hygge
Apr 20, 2024
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in:
- shorts w a sweater or jacket
- morning yoga at home
- passion projects / following my creative drive
- cute but subtle nails
- vegetable hydroponics
- freebies
out:
- neglecting to give myself the quiet time i need due to fomo
- old routines that are no longer serving
me
- morning pages (still writing, just not every day)
- holding myself to harsh standards
Jun 9, 2024
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Ins: closet liquidation, healthcare, sleep schedules, switching it up, being mysterious and esoteric while retaining whimsy
Outs: oversharing, t-shirts, alcohol, indecision, being scared of books, spending money for no reason
Apr 16, 2024
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Breaking my very thin, almost non existent air of mystery because I got a haircut I actually like, my favorite jeans fit again, it’s a full moon eclipse, 70°, and both of my kids’ birthdays are today!! MAGIC IS REAL AND I AM FULL OF LOVE! 💗 💗💗💗💗💗
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This has become the norm and every day I grow more disturbed. I understand if somebody is behaving in a harmful way, that is good to document and put out there. But as a whole, it seems, we have become so comfortable with recording people just living their lives. I saw a video of a guy working and the caption of the video was that he was so hot, we needed to find him!!! Why are you providing the Internet with his face and location instead of just going up to talk to him? I saw another of two people on the subway, seemingly a couple, having a very emotional moment. How would you feel if you open up an app and saw a video like that of yourself? I don’t like this level of sibling society surveillance. Why are you videoing an elderly person with sad music dubbed over it to gain likes? It is WEIRD. Don’t even get me started on videos of children. It is WEIRD to use a stranger without their consent to get some kind of fake validation. Get a life.
I don’t mean to come on here and share something so negative, I just don’t have anywhere else to put it and it’s gnawing at me.
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