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FINALLY this is available on iPhones with the new iOS! I schedule send messages and emails all the time if I need to send something at a specific time, if I’m sending something after someone’s working hours or at inappropriately late times, or if I’m anxious about sending something (very helpful for work stuff)… highly recommend using this feature on any communication platform!
Sep 20, 2024
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sending scheduled messages to myself on telegram so i can remember what to do
May 23, 2024
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If I get a bunch of texts right away in the morning my lizard brain will be like, “is everyone literally suffocating me right now?” I’ve found it helpful to use the Focus settings on the iphone to show my friends that I’m in hermit mode, that way I won’t see the notification right away and they don’t feel ignored. Then later in the day I can reply when I am in the right spirit and wanting to connect. I also just straight up tell friends that I don’t really do groupchats because they stress me out and they can take that or leave it 🐸 tldr: set digital boundaries and take advantage of windows of energy 🪟⚡️
Oct 19, 2024
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so you check your texts like a social media…only when you open the app.
sorry to my friends <3
maybe make an exception on the weekend?
still workshopping.
Feb 19, 2024
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
Feb 23, 2025
Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅
Feb 27, 2025
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I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024