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The same garbage i always wear ❤️

Oversized brown houndstooth sweater coat I’ve had for like five years, funky vintage metallic gold sweater I’ve had for ten years, wool men’s fedora I stole from costumes when I played a male gangster in a middle school play, big scarves, sheer black pantyhose, black boots, black dresses, black blazers… maybe get back into some aggressive pattern clashing idk I’m feeling quirky

@taterhole

Sep 19, 2024

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oh god. list

vintage leather A-2 jacket . black. got in berlin bc the fit was perfect. but i don’t really wear it much it doesn’t go with my clothes that seamlessly tbh vintage wool varsity jacket. black with yellow sleeve piping, very 70’s fit with spread collar. idk i don’t like the colours on me but i love the fit, style has gone another direction though tbh vintage blouse. white base with red & blue pattern. so cute but idk i’m a lazy dresser day to day and haven’t had an occasion for it loulou studio trousers. turquoise. love them and the fit, just don’t need to wear wool pants with regularity bc pain to wash. also very loud

@shegoestoanotherschool

Apr 18, 2024

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all black fit coordinated around a thrifted turtleneck

this fit has been in heavy rotation the last month and includes a few of my wardrobe staples. it’s loosely inspired by a gorgeous look in the Maria Callas movie where she’s wandering Paris in all black wearing one long jangly necklace and a turtleneck. ♟️black cotton fisherman sweater ♟️black turtleneck ♟️black wideleg pants (tailored to crop) ♟️long john’s under, tucked into black socks ♟️black ankle boots ♟️black vest ♟️long necklace with two charms on it ♟️not pictured: black down coat and black knitted cap

@salad_valet

Jan 21, 2025

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Never changing

My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌

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Finally Quitting the job that you hate

Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅

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Feb 27, 2025

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Rejecting the Commodification of the Self

I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments. We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume. On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics. By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance. For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look. In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.

@taterhole

Dec 27, 2024

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