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Don't act immediately upon the desire to do something life altering like chopping off our hair, getting bangs, or a tattoo, or faking your death!
Wait 30 days. Is the temptation still there? If no, then you've saved yourself some trouble. If yes, the obviously it's a Canon event and you have to π€·πΎββοΈ
Nov 15, 2024
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allow yourself impulsive shopping! buying stupid shit just because you want it now helps with decision making because ultimately itβs not That Deep. you just have to teach yourself that doing something without thinking about it for a year and consulting all your friends and family is ok and nothing bad will happen
Sep 14, 2024
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it might be bad for you in the long run, but caving in feels so good, and sometimes you just need that little threat
Mar 21, 2024
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your mind messes around too much. more often than not i feel like we already know what we want and our brain either tries to confirm it or convince us we're wrong because of the practicality or safety angles. fuck that (unless your financial situation absolutely dictates otherwise or there's deeper than rap stuff going on in your life). you only live once better to do stuff and have it not go as planned rather than wishing you did it
Sep 5, 2024
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Idk if you mean hatred of your like material conditions or hatred of yourself but both were mixed together for me.
I had no idea I hated my life so much until I had to sit back last year and realize a lot of the dumb decisions I made that ruined my life as I knew it were . . . More rooted in hatred than I realized. I mean, yeah economic factors and capitalist bullshit was also a major factor but boy I could have avoided a quarter of the pain I endured if I'd just not hated myself so fucking bad.
So there I was, moved back into my childhood home with my sorta toxic family, no job, no prospects on the horizon. Everything I told myself I'd end up being because I fulfilled my own prophecy in an attempt to be someone I didn't even think I deserved to be. And I couldn't change the economy, and I couldn't change the past. But I could change me. I could appreciate what I still had left after spiraling, and appreciate the chance to grow again in the future. Started a Substack, got a hobby, learned to enjoy reading books again, etc.
So it's gonna take a lot of unflinching introspection, maybe Journaling if you're into that, and learning what your bad coping methods are so you can slowly change it . . . But it can be done. Β You just gotta change one little habit st a time. And it might take longer than you want, but it'll feel better when you do.
Dec 3, 2024
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Even just once in your life. You got a Fandom you absolutely adore, it keeps you going and fills your life with something positive and meaningful? Give writing for it a try! Even just a 500 word dribble you plop on to Tumblr and never touch again. It's quite nice.Β
Nov 21, 2024
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It's a cold world but your dreams are bath warm. So take at LEAST an hour out of your day to daydream about something that stretches the limits of your reality. Like . . . .
Opening up a creamery in Iceland. Or playing hide and seek with friends in the Dolomites. Right now I daydream about opening up a late night cafe open from 10pm to 6 am, where you can buy books and use free wi-fi and play some arcade games.
Nov 16, 2024