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Even just once in your life. You got a Fandom you absolutely adore, it keeps you going and fills your life with something positive and meaningful? Give writing for it a try! Even just a 500 word dribble you plop on to Tumblr and never touch again. It's quite nice.
Nov 21, 2024
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Fanfiction is NOT weird.
It can be a safe space to explore how your favorite characters… or those special someone’s in your life.. would fare in an alternate universe, catered to your own fantasies.
Don’t let that shit bottle up inside.
Even better, share them with the world!
Jan 31, 2024
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Really doing any of your hobbies for yourself.
Nov 21, 2024
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Don't act immediately upon the desire to do something life altering like chopping off our hair, getting bangs, or a tattoo, or faking your death!
Wait 30 days. Is the temptation still there? If no, then you've saved yourself some trouble. If yes, the obviously it's a Canon event and you have to 🤷🏾♀️
Nov 15, 2024
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Idk if you mean hatred of your like material conditions or hatred of yourself but both were mixed together for me.
I had no idea I hated my life so much until I had to sit back last year and realize a lot of the dumb decisions I made that ruined my life as I knew it were . . . More rooted in hatred than I realized. I mean, yeah economic factors and capitalist bullshit was also a major factor but boy I could have avoided a quarter of the pain I endured if I'd just not hated myself so fucking bad.
So there I was, moved back into my childhood home with my sorta toxic family, no job, no prospects on the horizon. Everything I told myself I'd end up being because I fulfilled my own prophecy in an attempt to be someone I didn't even think I deserved to be. And I couldn't change the economy, and I couldn't change the past. But I could change me. I could appreciate what I still had left after spiraling, and appreciate the chance to grow again in the future. Started a Substack, got a hobby, learned to enjoy reading books again, etc.
So it's gonna take a lot of unflinching introspection, maybe Journaling if you're into that, and learning what your bad coping methods are so you can slowly change it . . . But it can be done. You just gotta change one little habit st a time. And it might take longer than you want, but it'll feel better when you do.
Dec 3, 2024
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It's a cold world but your dreams are bath warm. So take at LEAST an hour out of your day to daydream about something that stretches the limits of your reality. Like . . . .
Opening up a creamery in Iceland. Or playing hide and seek with friends in the Dolomites. Right now I daydream about opening up a late night cafe open from 10pm to 6 am, where you can buy books and use free wi-fi and play some arcade games.
Nov 16, 2024