I know that Thursdays are lowkey the November of the week, but my family holds a deep importance to Thursdays. It's because a lot of folks from my dads side of the family (including myself) were born on a Thursday. Whenever we have a new life in the family, it almost always lands on a Thursday.
Asides from the personal lore, here's what this day was like for you: you slept really well, a few hours less than usual, but woke up feeling refreshed. You took a cold shower, had a americano with your favourite yogurt with breakfast, and did some deep stretches by the window, watching the world wake up. Inevitably, there's house music playing as you're getting ready, you put on an accessory that you've put off wearing (maybe blue), and texted your mom I love you. Also inevitably, you're running toward the bus stop and barely had time to tie your shoes. You forgot your 2nd favourite lipgloss, but it's okay since you brought a new lipliner and someone complimented your outfit on the bus.
You meet your best friend for brunch, and you have some form of eggs and avocado toast. Your best friend is so warm and happy, it's like being the moon sitting across from the sun. You (once again, inevitably) spill some coffee on your outfit, but your best friend reassures you it's not noticable. You take your meds, and make a joke with the barista over the counter about adderall.
After brunch, you and your bff both go out on the town, maybe lurk around for a crystal shop and buy each other a rose quartz and lapis lazuli. You reccomend howlite for better sleep for the unassuming customer in the shop, and then you and your best friend part ways, crystal in each other's pocket.
Its around 2pm, so you grab some snacks like pinapple, mango, blueberries and strawberries for the beach. Maybe even a joint because it's west coast best coast and you're only young once. You head to the bathroom at the beach, lather up with sunscreen and take a quick mirror selfie to send to your boo. You feel the need to leave the crystal in the changing room, and then take a quick dip in the ocean. You feel high and wet and hungry, and you're so glad you bought some snacks. You get a nice tan, send an email you've been meaning to send, and play your favourite music.
Yeah, you might have laundry to fold and your room is messy from the grwm in the morning, but it feel far and a little inevitable to make it there, but be here now.
Nov 29, 2024
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outside my window the world is quieter but more awake. there is a startling rattle in the bones of the workers clutching the garbage bags lining the sidewalks and a sympathetic plea from the pups whose pads are cold and impatient.
one more day before freedom. an easy day, a slow day, a day of understanding perhaps - friday. on fridays, the day eases past. half of the office works harder, letting the tasks flow by as if exerting effort makes minutes deteriorate more quickly. the other halfs eyes strain and wait. breathing in with a sudden movement only every few minutes simply lollygagging the time away.
i find myself on the latter today - or possibly somewhere trapped in the middle. regardless the mantra rings out. thursdays are easy. they are forgiving. maybe even hopeful.
Jan 23, 2025
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I put working in air quotes because yes, do some work, but in the lightest way. eg; wake up and do the things you do to relax the mind, while thinking about the things you want to do (goals wise) - I’m doing this for first time rn but I know the logic is sound. I’m journaling, lighting palo, thinking about an organizational project I may or may not do shortly… thinking about what I can do to make Monday already feel like it has legs. Monday will be able to walk! It won’t have to repair its limbs from the weekend….
Party friday night. Recover & hang & chill Saturday. Sunday = thunder energy [organization] ⚡️✍🏼🕯️🥊🩷🏝️☁️
Jan 28, 2024
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recently, my girlfriend left for a study abroad and most of my ffriends are on holiday break away from NY. therefore, i have just been in this cycle of working and eating and sleeping. these past few days, i've made it my mission to get something done before i leave for work. whether that is taking out the trash or getting a croissant, i just have to have done an activity that requires me to leave my bed before my next shift. who'd-a-thunkit, i actually feel a little bit better every time i do this! i feel like i am making sense of the time that i have and i find great pride in being intentional about my joy. to more days like these, my lovelies
Jan 2, 2025
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I got my nails done and I realized the star on the index finger makes the nails PI themed. Semi unconscious yet a soft-smile realization while the nail tech was painting the star on.
Dec 18, 2024
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I was celibi-cied for like 3 years after my situationship became an ‘omfg-you-are-a-serial-cheater-on-your-girlfriend-of-four-years!’ Hella afraid of love, intimacy and everything.
over the past few months, I’ve been casual dating for no other means than finding out what I like and don’t like. I’ve had good and bad sex, been given flowers on the first date and then ghosted, moved to the UK and had my first proper one night stand (every other one was too drunken to remember lol) and am currently on my first bae-cation with a man I am slowly falling in love with.
I promise you, dating for fun rather than for long-term involvement is so much more enriching than you think. As you’re floating around, you learn to decenter men and tolerate their mansplaining a lot less. You find out that no, you do not want to make a sex tape on the first date, and then you’ll slowly trickle in the good stuff. Kind men who just listen to you, and are a little different than the other men you’ve seen. You‘ll learn to love being treated kindly, and cherish that above all else story-watching-liking-no game bs.
It’s sounds sooo irritating to say shit like phhh don’t look for it, it’ll come for you!! But girl as annoying as it is… that is the truth of the matter. I don’t know if this guy is my finish
line, but I did just orgasm like 8 times 🙏🏾 I met on hinge, and lowkey ghosted him intially. give the guy in your dms a chance for real ….
Wishing you and your future lover all the best….
p.s copying the other user by attaching a relevant song 😛
Nov 10, 2024
I love British Columbia cos I’m from here. So surreal and beautiful and peaceful.
WEST COAST BEST COAST RAHHHHHH
The pic is from a bat walk I went on yesterday. this shit is literally my backyard #crazyassprivelage
Jul 25, 2024