I have a lot of trouble getting rid of clothes and have had a habit of just buying and hoarding beautiful secondhand pieces and never wearing them. and when I do get rid of them I regret it soooo much like I did a purge within the last year because I had resigned myself to feeling like my body had permanently changed and then lost a ton of weight and am back to the size I used to be šŸ¤¦ā€ā™€ļø Here are a few items I cannot let go of: * Comically oversized impractical Surell fox fur earmuffs I got from Poshmark. Theyā€™re in a more sable color but I had to use this model photo to illustrate how hilariously huge they are Iā€™m obsessed. I only wear them when Iā€™m doing a glamorous look though because they look insane * square toed Rag & Bone cheetah print boots I got on TRR for like $15 when I delusionally thought my shoe size was smaller. they are just slightly too small and I wear them anyway and suffer because they are CUTEā€¦ * Rag & Bone fluffy loop knit rabbit hair sweater with gold metallic strands throughout. This is a photo of someoneā€™s from Poshmark that is in like immaculate condition but mine is rattier and the top buttons have fallen off so I always wear it open. my absolute favorite piece itā€™s so versatile and can be dressed up or down * cropped black Rag & Bone (can you see a patternā€¦) cashmere sweater and vintage black long slitted velvet skirt I bought at my neighborhood thrift store recently!! My new favorite outfit and these are pieces to hang onto forever
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Dec 17, 2024

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Because I already own so little I have a pretty bare-bones minimalistic lifestyle and probably have way less stuff than the average person. I donā€™t really buy things very often and Iā€™ve always purged my possessions regularly, giving away whatever i didnā€™t have a need for. Iā€™m kind of against selling things Iā€™ve already bought and used it feels greedy to me. Iā€™ve tried but I donā€™t have enough hustle in me to sell on Poshmark or Depop so I recently sent multiple pairs of Rag & Bone shoes and boots to the thrift store (has anyone else had to RECKON WITH your delusional belief that your feet were smaller than they were? I donā€™t even want to say what size mine are) + lots of gorgeous clothes that no longer fit me because I was convinced that I would never lose enough weight to fit into them again but now that I have Iā€™m like damn I wish I had my clothes back. Anyway I literally canā€™t think of one thing I have that I shouldnā€™t? Maybe the low-cut socks I bought at Costco recently before I remembered that I stopped buying these socks at Costco years ago because they SLIP like CRAZY and Iā€™m filled with rage every time I wear them. But I will probably just stay with them until they fall apart because Iā€™m too cheap to buy more.
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When I was a wee twiggy girl approximately aged 16-23 I would just buy whatever I could find at thrift stores that was especially weird or interesting and didnā€™t have to think about what it looked like because I could just slap things together and look cute and quirky. As Iā€™ve aged Iā€™ve developed a gourmand tendency towards indulgence and, consequently, a figure a little more like Marilyn Monroe (not in the way a lot of women say itā€”no offense and bless them for living their truthā€”Iā€™m speaking objectively) so my focus is like purely on finding clothes that fit me structurally that have very particular shapes silhouettes and details. Iā€™m also careful about finding clothes that fit within an autumnal color palette to suit my complexion. I generally wonā€™t buy clothes if theyā€™re not made of natural fibers and if Iā€™m thrift shopping or on poshmark I keep an eye out for pieces from designers I love. I look for things that fit with my well loved staple items and only buy something if I really love it because I donā€™t like to have a lot of stuff anymore. I love lush textures and fabrics for winter like velvet and fur
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I have thought about this at length, I fear. I want to look and feel at ease in my clothes and I shop for clothing very intentionally. For me the rules of outfits are: - No single-designer looks - Steam/press rarely - No logos (sneakers are the exception) - Always wear at least 1 garment with visible wear or damage - Get dressed intentionally every day - It does not matter how conventionally flattering the look is. I care only about how it makes me feel in my body - Never clean Ur (my) shoes except to keep leather in condition I shop almost exclusively second hand and in personā€”I only buy if I would be heartbroken to come back for a garment to find it had passed me by forever. Most pieces I see are effectively one-offs because I treat them this way. I am attracted to Japanese workwear silhouettes, modular garments, and drama. ā€œMyā€ colour is the shade precisely between yellow and orange. All my jewelry is gifted. I aim to keep garments until the end of their lives.
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