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i think now more than ever, we live in a society where it is normalized to judge others for not following the ātrendsā or āsocially acceptableā things, which has become a big problem for the coming generations. i think people should be their unique, authentic, selves and shouldnāt be afraid of such, because who actually cares ? i mean, yeah, people will probably judge you for it and say rude things, but people will do that anyways, so why not have them say it about something YOU know you love. as long as you know that you like it, then it shouldnāt matter what that one girl thinks about it, because at the end of the day, itās just someoneās opinion, not an actual truth. if you wanna dress all funky and different, do it !! and do so with confidence .
Dec 28, 2024
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My favorite thing in getting to know new people is finding out the things they enjoy that seem a bit out of character. I think itās comforting and a bit sexy when not everything that they like has to be ācoolā for them to really enjoy it. Being self-assured and knowing your worth is hot.
After all, life is too short to try and shape yourself around a mould that doesnāt truly resonate with you. Just enjoy the things that bring you joy without caring if they are basic or lame to others. you can enjoy the band that everyone hates, enjoy the movies that people think are overrated, and wear the shirt that went out of style 5 years ago.
true authenticity is a rare trait, always has been. Itās like striking gold when you find that inner peace to just be yourself, regardless of how cringy others find it. Find the peace to like what you like without shame.
Feb 20, 2025
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It would be hypocritical from me to say i donāt follow trends, quite the opposite some of them can really be interesting and i āfollowā them but i have no desire to fit in.
Everyday i embrace my soul, my heart and my mind because it took me years to be the Me of today and as an individual itās totally normal to be unique in my own way.
I am unapologetically myself, no matter how much ātroubleā it gets me with people i donāt care. To be put in a box just to fit in or follow the ārulesā was never something that i tolerated nor could handle.
I value self reliance and resent depending on someone
I am selective when it comes to socialising because i prefer being alone than having small talk
I question everything to be convinced before i accept it or do it
I am assertive, i express my needs, opinions and boundaries even if it means leading to a conflict with someone
I dont care about social pressure, i believe anyone can achieve anything at any age
I donāt care about approval
I am always open to learn new stuff and never afraid to be seen as āuneducatedā during the process
I donāt wanna copy.
I am me, if i wanna read a kidāa book i will, if i wanna paint a tomato i will, if i wanna learn Russian i will, if i wanna wear a blazer with sweatpants because I think it looks good ON ME i WILL, me is ME and you is YOU.
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Jan 25, 2025
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I am so happy that people nowadays are realizing the value of being authentically themselves away from following trends. I love seeing the physically manifestation of self through people's whimsical outfits, the way they decorate their rooms, their music playlists and etc. I think being you attracts great things, opportunities, and people that are meant to make your life better!
Jan 24, 2025
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