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In:
Physical groundingÂ
Simple vacations
CreativityÂ
Driving more
Watching classic movies (30âs-60âs)
Full coverage insurance
Layered rugs
Rock songs with female vocalistÂ
Game nights
Going with a flow thatâs not mine
Themed dinner partiesÂ
Patterns
ROTH IRA
Using ingredients already in my kitchenÂ
Car washâsÂ
SubstackÂ
Out:
Answering questions
Rushing
ExplainingÂ
Sugar
My phone
OverextendingÂ
People who donât think enoughÂ
Crocs outside of work and leisure activities :(
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ins:
- feminist lit
- creative salads
- pastels
- slow movement
- handmade gifts
- museums
- downsizing
- silence
- snail mail
- Substack
- fresh pasta
- being bored
out:
- iPhone photography
- takeout
- television
- uncomfortable shoes
- being late
- Starbucks
- rugs
- social media
- fast fashion
Dec 28, 2024
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Romance
Being taken care of
Independence
Saving money
Listening to full albums
Books
Movie theater
Baked goods
Pilates
Flossing
Vitamins
Self kindness
Therapy
Dancing
Wine
Pj sets
The library
No makeup
At home coffee
Black coffee
Dating myself
Perfume
Outs
Messy car
Being the caregiver
Relying on men to make me feel good
Social media
Screen time over 3.5 hrs
Distracted watching
Ultra balancing mealsÂ
Self doubt
Being shy
Dating appsÂ
Instagram reels
Lack of vitamin d
Jan 1, 2025
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INS/ trend forecastÂ
-funk/disco music revivalÂ
-late 60s- early 80s style comebackÂ
-redÂ
-face masksÂ
-peel off polaroidsÂ
-stripes & floralsÂ
-physical media, DVDsÂ
-adventuring in your home townÂ
-tortoiseshell pattern> cheetah/leopardÂ
-medieval revival brought into the mainstreamÂ
-gold>silverÂ
-shopping mall revivalÂ
-signet ringsÂ
-meditationÂ
-having your own thoughtsÂ
-sport: climbing (outfits worn as everyday style too)
-handwritten recipesÂ
-recording studiosÂ
-loungewear: grey varsity sweaters and black thongsÂ
-honesty and kindnessÂ
-petitions and marches for things you believe inÂ
-making the most of alone timeÂ
OUTS
-men wearing carabinersÂ
-embarrassmentÂ
-people taking to me about their situationships (leave me alone pls! i donât have advice)Â
-flat shoes (sambas/ballet flats)Â
-speaking too loudlyÂ
-smoking (& vaping)Â
-overconsumptionÂ
-letting the far right take overÂ
-drinking at every eventÂ
-driving lessons (only until they go right)Â
(any more suggestions?!)
Jan 19, 2025
Top Recs from @2h2h99
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Iâm taking a dark shower (no lights or candles). A planet is being illuminated soooo bright rn itâs beautiful.
Steaming hot water to 34 degree weather because Iâm going outside to see it better when Iâm done.
The planet parade is coming soon. Iâll have to call out of work. I canât miss it.
Jan 17, 2025
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If all the good men are taken by the time Iâm ready to possibly have one then okay?? because fortunately thatâs not the end of my world. nothing about not having a husband worries me.
being older and single and HEALTHY is a win.
Maybe Iâll settle down maybe I wonât. Iâll be happy either way.
Feb 4, 2025