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I really hate when people say ā€œyou should watch this, itā€™s so goodā€. Maybe itā€™s my natural oppositional defiance at play, but any time something gets hyped up, I want nothing to do with it. So I just finished watching Challengers, and yeah. It lives up to the hype. But Iā€™m glad I came to that conclusion in my own terms, makes it easier to see a piece of work for what it is, without the influence of too many opinions.

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I do this a lot with tv shows!
Jan 15, 2025
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I am obnoxiously contrarian so this is pretty much my MO. I always feel out of the loop with popular shows and movies but it doesn't bug me too much.
Jan 15, 2025
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I do this too! But I also found that one of the most fun parts of enjoying some things like movies or TV has been getting into it at the same time that other people are talking about it/making fanart of it/generally open to discussing it as an item of interest. Watching Succession at the same time as everyone else was so different for me than watching Mad Men years after it had come out
Jan 15, 2025
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hannahla I agree. I also watched succession at the same time as everyone else and it was fun to talk about it, but I think it really depends on the show and the audience. If people are too obnoxious about something it really turns me off.
Jan 15, 2025
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i feel like i explain this exact feeling to someone everytime something new starts trendingšŸ˜­ like i physically canā€™t enjoy it until everyone else moves on
Jan 15, 2025
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i feel like the kind of hype youā€™re talking about is what ruined my experience with The Substance, i was so disappointed when i saw it, i mean itā€™s good but the hype set my expectations too high
Jan 15, 2025
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sunch1ld yeah Iā€™m waiting a while to watch that one
Jan 15, 2025
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for me itā€™s like, yall hype it up so much but like im scared of watching or listening and then itā€™s gonna be MID, the utter disa and then everyone turning back on your for not liking, I just be waiting till the hype dies, if itā€™s really good there will still be a fandom for it, if it was mid like I feared then people wonā€™t ever remember or care
Jan 15, 2025
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I do this too. I remember when Frozen came out, I vehemently chose to not watch it. Watched the first 30 minutes of it last year, and for a kids movie it wasnā€™t bad
Jan 15, 2025
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i'm the same. i'm always consuming media after the hype of it has died down. something about it being discussed so much puts me off it idk. but when i finally get to it i understand the hype hahah
Jan 15, 2025

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