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I believe this is what’s going to motivate me to put in the self work. If I can’t keep promises I’ve made to myself, what I say to other people can’t reach its full impact.
Make a list for my days
Do whats on the list
Becauseeeee
I love myself
There was some sort of mental block but im working through it. I’m not lazy. I just couldn’t do the mundane things??
But I made the appointments and I’ve fully completed my laundry in one day.
It’s as simple as just getting it done. I can do it later but than it’ll just never get done or I can put it on my day planner and get it done when I say I want to. Checking it off is satisfying.
Also not overloading my day with task is important.
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And then completing it. Applies to "I am a person who will cook themselves a nutritious meal" etc. Not 100% effective, but makes me feel deeply determined when the scheme works.
Mar 18, 2024
I love doing things to make the day easier for my future self. Self love baby. Ooo, it feels so nice. Ooo, it feels so good!
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That thing you walk by every day and think, ”Ugh, I need to take care of that.”
And then you don’t take care of it, and then you walk by it again and think, “Ugh, why didn’t I deal with that! I suck.”
And then you’re depressed.
(Or is it just me?)
Well, next time say, “I’m going to do this right now.”
And then, don’t just move it somewhere closer to where it needs to go. If it needs to be in a box in the closet, take the box down and it the thing inside. Don’t put it on the shelf next to the box. Do it right.
I, for one, feel so much better about myself when things are taken care of.
Jan 15, 2025
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I’m taking a dark shower (no lights or candles). A planet is being illuminated soooo bright rn it’s beautiful.
Steaming hot water to 34 degree weather because I’m going outside to see it better when I’m done.
The planet parade is coming soon. I’ll have to call out of work. I can’t miss it.
Jan 17, 2025
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If all the good men are taken by the time I’m ready to possibly have one then okay?? because fortunately that’s not the end of my world. nothing about not having a husband worries me.
being older and single and HEALTHY is a win.
Maybe I’ll settle down maybe I won’t. I’ll be happy either way.
Feb 4, 2025