People often ask me for relationship advice because I have an unhinged Twitter account that documents my romantic pitfalls. I find it to be pretty disconcerting considering I am an emotional monster and a loser in the sack, but for some reason, cute college girls still come knocking. I have a compulsive need to share everything Iâm thinking to anyone who will listen, but Iâve never gone into explicit detail about my last relationship partly because I really respect my ex,  and partly because I still donât know what to make of it. I cheated on him. It was awful. I promised myself Iâd never be unfaithful again because I know no greater pain than hurting the person you love. My last ex is the only person Iâve ever broken up with, and it took me forever to do it. First, we went on a break. Then, we got back together. Then he proposed. I didnât say no but I didnât say yes either. It took three months to fully break up, and it was only until I read this article that I was able to muster the courage to do the damn thing. I loved my ex with all my heart - in ways I still love him - and it was so hard to part ways because  he hadnât done anything âwrong.â He was impossibly dedicated to me. Impossibly kind, impossibly smart, impossibly loving. But I knew things werenât working. I knew I wanted more. Anyway, this article says it better than I can. Bottom line: If there is a âtiny clear voiceâ inside you that is saying âGOâ, you must listen to it.