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If you’re miserable and feel like you may be trans, you are trans. Start slow if you’d like, but try playing around with presentation, no matter what gender, serve it fiercely. If you’re in a safe enough environment, let them have it. Serve it ancient city style on the JMZ.
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I know it’s corny but it’s genuinely so freeing to just do what you like. In the last year I started to really embrace my gender identity especially with my physical appearance. Being able to freely dress as you please and express yourself is so incredibly freeing. My confidence has sky rocketed. Being willing to express yourself regardless of societal pressure to appear a strict way. Be out there be bold!!!
Jan 28, 2025
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You can be a grungy, graffiti adjacent, Abes Pagoda, Bushwick Princess For a few years and then transport to a high heel wearing, velvet lounge drinking, networking warrior. It’s your life and it’s ok to play characters.
Feb 3, 2024
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Honestly the best way to reinvent yourself is just to live. Being in a new place with new people will expose you to so many amazing things you never would have been aware off if you stayed at home.
Big tip is to just try things, figure out what you like without the pressure of feeling like you have to keep up a performance! try new outfit styles, new hair do, new clubs and hobbies just get out there and experience everything!
It’s freeing I can promise you. Slightly scary at times but the best thing I was ever told was feel the fear and do it anyway.
Apr 18, 2024
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Yall need to stop drinking lmao its soooooooo nasty. Like are you okay? You donnnnt need vodka 4 times a week. Learn to be cute sober. It’s more powerful. That being said, I’m an alcoholic and drank excessively for 13 years so ://// I get it. But once you harness your sober powers you can do anything.
Dec 4, 2024
Crunt: If something is crunt or crunted, its cunt but it’s also runted. Like weird, deformed, and gorgeous. Ex: my new bangs are so crunted; the main character from Chimp Crazy is crunted
Becca: If someone is a Becca, they are your bestie, but also the most annoying person in the world. They are insufferable yet you can’t quit them. Ex: Kaylor from Love Island is so becca, she’s becca down.
if someone is being especially naughty, you can call them Rebecca. If they’re being super fun, you can call them Becks.
Eenkgow: This is how I (a transwoman) says “thank you”. If you say it soft and fast enough, it passes as a cis-woman saying “thank you” in a flirty way. If youre being clocked on the reg, try this out for size.
Dec 4, 2024
I’ve been writing my new songs with a stolen pen from the Edition on Sunset. The weight of it, all black, metal, something about it makes me feel so bitchlicious. I went in for an interview 3 times and they never hired me to be a human statue (host) so as revenge I got a guy to take me to lunch on the rooftop and stole this pen. I recommend.
Dec 4, 2024