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Just got back from a date :p I used to think that I couldn’t go out and date until I had all my shit together, but I don’t and neither do they and we had a great time and convo. it could all be so simple
Feb 15, 2025
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i guess it's super cliche but i really felt better after i went on a date. i made it clear that i wanted to keep it casual and actually had a nice time. it's refreshing to feel someone interested in you, kind of brings things into perspective.
Apr 24, 2024
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only happened to me after many years of not dating & instead spending time with myself until i realized i'm capable of being happy if i don't ever find anyone.. so in that sense i also second normieexgirlfriend's rec
otherwise remember that dating is about trying to find somebody who'll fit into the life you've already established.. it is certainly not about trying to impress anyone or find somebody before an imaginary time limit is up.. just focus on having fun and trying to connect with people, not hoping every date you go on will lead to your next relationship
Jul 2, 2024
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This was such a mindfuck to me when I first heard it from a good friend (a decade older than me so she always knows what’s up), because I had it drilled into me for so long that relationships took WORK and the strongest relationships were always the ones that worked through a lot of differences/difficulties/etc.
But relationships are also supposed to be fun and joyous!!! And while just dating, it should feel easy for a good LONG while because yes of course some things will get hard eventually as life happens—but if dating them was easy, staying in a more serious committed relationship with them (if that’s your goal) will be much more attainable than it would have been with someone who was hard to date before things became more serious.
(i know this probably sounds so obvious and i was just a 19-year-old dumbass but this is the advice i always give people and so far every person i’ve told it to has broken up with a difficult person and found someone who feels safe and easy—including me 14 years ago 😅)
Aug 5, 2024
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