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asked best friend to sit with a group of people i’ve been trying to get to know and not only did he give me a queasy look he said :/ “they’re loud” and i said “you haven’t even tried hanging out with them” and he looked disgusted. he then said he was gonna try and then they weren’t in their usual spot so he just went where we usually go. wanted to DIE when that happened because i love him and want to hang out with him but i also want to get to know this new group of people and i don’t think it’s fair for him to not even try to talk to them. when he wanted me to sit with aileen i didn’t act like that and if he wanted me to sit with other people i wouldn’t act like that. why does he act like that :(
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i've been seeing tiktoks of people asking their friends to pick them up from the airport/help moving and no one agrees. honestly what kind of a friend are you if you only care about doing fun stuff together and disappearing in the time of need. and honestly same goes for ignoring stuff in public like you see a woman carrying heavy bags and you just walk by? or when people don't offer their seats in transport for the elderly or sick? very strange to me. be kind to others personal boundaries are overrated
Sep 14, 2024
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i've always been slightly worried about asking friends to catch up, meet up, or spend time together out of the blue but maybe not everyone hates me idk !! to more time with friends 🫶
Feb 13, 2024
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Literally just try it. And don’t have a bad attitude about it either. If your friend is in a healthy relationship with a normal person you will probably have a good time.
Feb 3, 2024
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time and time again i see a cute person and i get to know them and then i ask for music and im blow away by the beauty i find. its comforting to know that i could be learning new music forever and there would still be more music to find from the next beautiful person.
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when i listen to crywank it makes me feel validated in my sadness and my anxieties about the world. i think of all of the unwritten thoughts ive had and how deeply someone else’s have changed my life.
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