In:
- Dragoncore
- Dyradcore
- screen time
- random markets
- side quests
- making others uncomfortable with my authenticity
- hunting down knowledge with feral hunger
- making bigger and bigger projects/goals for yourself
- forgiving yourself
- DIY
- nail art
Out:
- self deprecation in large and worryingly sincere amounts
- invisibility
- posture you choose to let worsen
- letting things go to waste/pass you by
- wasteful spending
- making excuses for repeated patterns of behavior
- letting a suffering economy define your worth
- pretending not to see the writing on the wall
- holding back from your true path out of fear
- waiting too long
- saying things are "lowkey" they either are what they are or don't even mention it you PUSSY!!
- saying things are "highkey" you're looking for a other word like . . . "Really!" Or "extra!" Or maybe even "outstandingly!" enough!!
Dec 22, 2024
Related Recs
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ins;
✧ read more
✧ wander when i can, aimlessly with no set goal
✧ lie in silence a lot and stare at the ceiling
✧ become connected with those whose company i truly value
✧ observing, rather than commenting
✧ crafting! exploring my creative side and interests
✧ setting smaller and more realistic goals
✧ exploring music and finding new sounds
✧ volunteering more and giving back :D
outs;
✧ filling my life with constant screen time
✧ bad habits
✧ giving time and energy to temporary and draining people
✧ overthinking
✧ constant pursuit of every goal I have all of the time
✧ tearing myself apart with thoughts and extreme pressure on myself
note to self:
read back over in 2026.
even achieving one is ok, don't grade your life, if your happy I'm happy
Jan 12, 2025
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Ins:
* shooting delusionally high for my goals
* heat styling my hair
* further investing in friendships and other relationships
* long-term gratification
* vetting; divesting time and energy wisely
* top-level maslowian needs, third eye and crown chakra activation, etc
Outs:
* giving myself too freely (Not in a sex way in an every other way way)
* trying to fit square pegs into round holes (also not in a sex way in a metaphorical way)
* dressing purposefully frumpy
* being a huge bitch; paradoxically, also being too accommodating and understanding
Dec 21, 2024
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In:
- shenanigans of sorts
- embracing the bad aspects to ur music taste (i happen to LOVE “lips of an angel“)
- sharing
- caring
- being happy
- speaking ur mind (when appropriate)
- cute pamper nights
- a very good skincare routine
- taking notes
- weird shoes
Out:
- overthinking
- being a snob
- constant bed rotting
- tardiness
- being sad
- oversharing to people u just met (please stop))))
- skipping lectures
- giving lectures
- judgement
Jan 11, 2025
Top Recs from @Indigo_sodapop
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Don't act immediately upon the desire to do something life altering like chopping off our hair, getting bangs, or a tattoo, or faking your death!
Wait 30 days. Is the temptation still there? If no, then you've saved yourself some trouble. If yes, the obviously it's a Canon event and you have to 🤷🏾♀️
Nov 15, 2024
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Idk if you mean hatred of your like material conditions or hatred of yourself but both were mixed together for me.
I had no idea I hated my life so much until I had to sit back last year and realize a lot of the dumb decisions I made that ruined my life as I knew it were . . . More rooted in hatred than I realized. I mean, yeah economic factors and capitalist bullshit was also a major factor but boy I could have avoided a quarter of the pain I endured if I'd just not hated myself so fucking bad.
So there I was, moved back into my childhood home with my sorta toxic family, no job, no prospects on the horizon. Everything I told myself I'd end up being because I fulfilled my own prophecy in an attempt to be someone I didn't even think I deserved to be. And I couldn't change the economy, and I couldn't change the past. But I could change me. I could appreciate what I still had left after spiraling, and appreciate the chance to grow again in the future. Started a Substack, got a hobby, learned to enjoy reading books again, etc.
So it's gonna take a lot of unflinching introspection, maybe Journaling if you're into that, and learning what your bad coping methods are so you can slowly change it . . . But it can be done. You just gotta change one little habit st a time. And it might take longer than you want, but it'll feel better when you do.
Dec 3, 2024
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Even just once in your life. You got a Fandom you absolutely adore, it keeps you going and fills your life with something positive and meaningful? Give writing for it a try! Even just a 500 word dribble you plop on to Tumblr and never touch again. It's quite nice.
Nov 21, 2024