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Jesus fuck. growing up a neurodivergent kid w wavering mental health, a wavering home life, in and out of therapy, etc, you always hear ā€œhave you tried meditatingā€ No Susan I never fucking thought of that thank you for the recommendation Well finally at my big age, I took the leap to start practicing and Jesus fuck. Why was I avoiding this my whole life. I have been so resistant to it because itā€™s intimidating, itā€™s not instant gratification every time, and itā€™s ā€¦ well scary! What if I mess up. What you mean sitting still for ten or so mins and not thinking. I have always been big into dreams. Iā€™ve wrote down my dreams for as long as I can remember, have books upon books filled, and practice lucid dreaming. Itā€™s kind of like that but without being asleep and without any anxiety inducing scenarios Itā€™s improved a lot of areas in my life in the two short months I have been practicing Iā€™m having fun
Mar 5, 2025

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>not thinking ay, thereā€™s the rub. any tips on muting the inner dialog when meditating?
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royallmonarch perioddd yea! When those come up, inevitably as part of the process, i kind of say to myself ā€œoh yeah, thatā€™s there, lets leave that for later/ weā€™ll deal with that laterā€ like in a taking to myself in my head kinda way. i then direct my attention to creating a scene in my mind. I picture myself physically in like, a forest, on a beach, wherever you want. Like a dream scenario. Or the scene the guided meditation i use is painting Getting used to those thoughts being there and coming up is part of the process and practice. i always thought i was doing it wrong when those came up like im not ā€meditating rightā€ but after a while of practice, you just kinda end up accepting that itā€™s just always Going to be the case where u gotta acknowledge thatā€™s there & say to yourself.. ā€œlaterā€ which isnā€™t easy to accept but Gets easier, even if it feels ā€œwrongā€ in the moment :-)
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Iā€™ve been meditating consistently for the first time in over a year and I feel like a big part of it is finding a good mix of traditional meditation and activities that put me in a meditative state (going for a walk, bird watching, water colors, reading tarot)
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